Thursday, January 16, 2014

Post 47x: In this Review of the October 2013 General Conference Talk Delivered by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I Have Provided You an Opportunity to Adequately Determine How You Personally Should Best Respond if Either You or One of Your Dear Loved Ones Will Have Found Themselves Confronted by a Serious Personal Mental/ Emotional Problem.

The Following Blog Description Explains Why My Blog is named: "Four Books of Scripture Testify of Jesus Christ!


Jesus the Christ -by Del Parson

WELCOME, NEW  AND REGULAR 
VIEWERS OF THIS BLOG: In this and 
in every additional post of this blog you will 
be led on a carefully and prayerfully planned 
exciting and inspiring journey as you prepare 
by means of a guided study of the four sacred 
books of scripture I am shown holding above; 
which will assist you in becoming more 
righteously happy now and more fully 
prepared for eventual After-Mortality Eternal 
Endeavors on your part, along with your loved 
ones and countless other mortals who are 
seeking to qualify as our Heavenly Father's 
worthy children. 

Those enabling Books of Scripture were 
brought about through the love of the 
Heavenly Father of our immortal spirits 
which now inhabit our mortal bodies; and 
were a key part of the Restoration of the 
Gospel, and of the establishment of The 
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day 
Saints, through the Prophet Joseph Smith 
early in the Nineteenth Century. 

Leading out in all of this, was of course, 
Our Heavenly Father's Only Begotten Son 
who is our Lord, Savior, and Redeemer, 
Jesus Christ (who initially was our eldest 
spirit brother and is the only one of us 
our Heavenly Father will have ever 
sired into mortality). 

Jesus accomplished His Infinite Atonement, 
the Ultimate Mortal Sacrifice, along with 
His infallibly witnessed Resurrection. He is 
our Redeemer and Savior who opened the 
way for each of us to learn with certainty 
through those four books of scripture, and 
through the inspired teachings of His 
prophets, seers and revelators of our day 
and those authorized by them; that some 
time after our mortal deaths, because of 
His atonement and resurrection, and 
depending on the level of individual 
righteousness we each attain to, through 
His grace, we can eventually experience 
Eternal Life in our own resurrected bodies, 
which in the case of those who fully heeded 
all of His scriptural guidance and the 
guidance of His authorized living servants, 
there will be full possession of Godly 
capabilities! 

J. Neil Birch

To Access This Blog's Index, Please Scroll Down To the Fifth 
Paragraph From the End of This Post! For Those of You Who May 
Be In a Hurry to Access it, Here it is now: Neil Birch's Blog Index.

****

TODAY'S THEME:

I, J. Neil Birch, Author of this Blog Post as you have 
been informed in my Introduction, have chosen this 
week to feature an October 2013 General Conference 
talk given by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum 
of the Twelve Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ 
of Latter-day Saints in Which He Sensitively Prepares 
Each of Us How To Adequately Prepare to Deal With 
Serious Emotional Problems With Which We Or a Close 
Family Member May Have Been Afflicted.  First, 
desire that you each learn about Elder Holland's 
background before he was called to his position as a 
Member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of the 
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. 


Now I invite you to listen to the featured General Conference 
Talk which was delivered by Elder Holland at the October 
2013 General Conference:


  • www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/like-a-broken-vessel?lang=eng


You are next invited to thoughtfully and prayerfully
read through the printed version of Elder Holland's talk 
in which you will come across,  each of  the referencnotes 
he has inserted through which he,  with some assistance
from me through the means of the Internet which facilitates
this and all blogs, he gives us inspired guidance:

Like a Broken Vessel
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles 
Jeffrey R. Holland

How do you best respond when 
mental or emotional challenges 
confront you or those you love?

The Apostle Peter wrote that disciples of Jesus 
Christ are to have “compassion one of another.” 1 
                1
                   1 Peter 3:8  Finally, be ye all of one  
mind, having compassion one of another,
 love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
In that spirit I wish to speak to those who suffer from 
some form of  mental illness or emotional disorder, 
whether those afflictions be slight or severe, of brief 
duration or persistent over a lifetime. We sense the 
complexity of such matters when we hear professionals 
speak of neuroses and psychoses, of genetic 
predispositions and chromosome defects, of bipolarity, 
paranoia, and schizophrenia. However bewildering this 
all may be, these afflictions are some of the realities of 
mortal life,  and there should be no more  shame in 
acknowledging them than in acknowledging battle 
with high blood pressure or the sudden appearance 
of a malignant tumor. 

    In striving for some peace and understanding in 
these difficult matters, it is crucial to remember that 
we are living—and chose to live—in a fallen world 
where for divine purposes our pursuit of  godliness will 
be tested and tried again and again. Of greatest 
assurance in God’s plan is that a Savior was promised, 
a Redeemer, who through our faith in Him would lift us 
triumphantly over those tests and trials, even though 
the cost to do so would be unfathomable for both the 
Father who sent Him and the Son who came. It is only 
an appreciation of this divine love that will make our 
own lesser suffering first bearable, then understandable, 
and finally redemptive. 

   Let me leave the extraordinary illnesses I have 
mentioned to concentrate on MDD —“major depressive 
disorder”—or, more commonly, “depression.” When I 
speak of this, I am not speaking of bad hair days, tax 
deadlines, or other discouraging moments we all have. 
Everyone is going to be anxious or downhearted on 
occasion. The Book of  Mormon says Ammon and his 
brethren were depressed at a very difficult time, 2 
2Alma 26:27 Now when our hearts were 
depressed, and we were about to turn back, 
behold, the Lord comforted us, and said:
Go amongst thy brethren, the Lamanites, and
 bear with patience thine afflictions, and I will
give unto you success.
Ammon, one of the
 Sons of the king of the Nephites
is guided  by the Lord in saving
the Lamanite king's flock.















and so can the rest of us be. But today I am speaking of 
something more serious, of an affliction so severe that it 
significantly restricts a person’s ability to function fully, 
a crater in the mind so deep that no one can responsibly 
suggest it would surely go away if those victims would 
just square their shoulders and think more positively
—though I am a vigorous advocate of square shoulders 
and positive thinking! 

     No, this dark night of the mind and spirit is more than 
mere discouragement. I have seen it come to an 
absolutely angelic man when his beloved spouse of 50 
years passed away. I have seen it in new mothers with 
what is euphemistically labeled “after-baby blues.” 
I have seen it strike anxious students, military veterans,
 and grandmothers worried about the well-being of their 
grown children. 
    
    And I have seen it in young fathers trying to provide 
for their families. In that regard I once terrifyingly saw 
it in myself. At one point in our married life when financial 
fears collided with staggering fatigue, I took a psychic blow 
that was as unanticipated as it was real. With the grace of 
God and the love of my family, I kept functioning and kept 
working, but even after all these years I continue to feel a 
deep sympathy for others more chronically or more deeply 
afflicted with such gloom than I was. In any case we have 
all taken courage from those who, in the words of the 
Prophet Joseph, “search[ed] … and contemplate[d] the 
darkest abyss” 3 
Joseph Smith
























3 Teachings of the Presi-
dents of the Church: 
Joseph Smith (2007, p.267


"...Let Honesty, and sobriety, and candor, and 

solemnity, and virtue, and pureness, and 

meekness, and simplicity crown our heads 

in every place; and in fine, become as little 

children, without malice,  guile or 

hypocrisy.

And now, brethren, after your tribulations, if 

you do these things, and exercise fervent prayer 

and faith in the sight of God always, He shall give 

unto you knowledge by His Holy spirit, yea by 

the unspeakable gift of the Holy Ghost. "



Receiving the Gift of the Holy Ghost















D.C. 121:26 God shall give unto you knowledge by his Holy 
Spirit, yea, by the unspeakable gift of the Holy Ghost, that has 
not been revealed since the world was until now; been revealed 
since the world was until now;


and persevered through it —not the least of whom were 
Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, and Elder 
















George Albert Smith, the latter being one of the most 
gentle and Christlike men of our dispensation, who battled 
recurring depression for some years before later becoming 
the universally beloved eighth prophet and President of 
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. 

So how do you best respond when mental or emotional
challenges confront you or those you love? Above all,
never lose faith in your Father in Heaven, who loves you
more than you can comprehend. As President Monson
said to the Relief Society sisters so movingly last Saturday
evening: “That love never changes. … It is there for you
when you are sad or happy, discouraged or hopeful. God’s
love is there for you whether or not you feel you deserve
[it]. It is simply always there.” 4  
4 Thomas S. Monson, November 2013 Ensign, pages 123-124.
Never, ever doubt that, and never harden your heart. 
Faithfully pursue the time-tested devotional practices that 
bring the Spirit of the Lord into your life. Seek the counsel 
of those who hold keys for your spiritual well-being. Ask for 
and cherish priesthood blessings. Take the sacrament every 
week, and hold fast to the perfecting promises of the 
Atonement of Jesus Christ.  Believe in miracles. I have seen 
so many of them come when every other indication would 
say that hope was lost. Hope is never lost. 


Christ in Gethsemane













If those miracles do not come soon or fully or seemingly 
at all, remember the Savior’s own anguished example: 
if the bitter cup does not pass, drink it and be strong, 
trusting in happier days ahead. 5
5
 Mathew 26:39  And he went a little further, and fell on his face, 
and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this
 cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.

In preventing illness whenever possible, watch for the stress 
indicators in yourself and in others you may be able to help. 
As with your automobile, be alert to rising temperatures, 
excessive speed, or a tank low on fuel. When you face 
“depletion depression,” make the requisite adjustments. 
Fatigue is the common enemy of us all—so slow down, rest 
up, replenish, and refill. Physicians promise us that if we 
do not take time to be well, we most assuredly will take time 
later on to be ill. If things continue to be debilitating, seek 
the advice of reputable people with certified training, 
professional skills, and good values. Be honest with 
them about your history and your struggles. 
Prayerfully and responsibly consider the counsel they 
give and the solutions they prescribe. If you had 
appendicitis, God would expect you to seek a 
priesthood blessing and get the best medical care 
available. 
So too with emotional disorders. Our Father in Heaven 
expects us to use all of the marvelous gifts He has provided
in this glorious dispensation. 
If you are the one afflicted or a caregiver to such, try not 
to be overwhelmed with the size of your task. Don’t 
assume you can fix everything, but fix what you can. 
If those are only small victories, be grateful for them and
be patient. Dozens of  times in the scriptures, the Lord
commands someone to “stand still” or “be still”
—and wait. 6 
6 6 Psalm 4:4  Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with 
your own heart upon your bed and be still. Selah. 
D. and C. 101:16  Therefore, let your hearts be comforted 
concerning  Zion; for all flesh is in mine hands; be still and 
know that I am God.
Patiently enduring some things is part of our mortal
education. 
For caregivers, in your devoted effort to assist with
another’s health, do not destroy your own.  In all
these things be wise. Do not run faster than you have
strength. 7 
7 Mosiah 4: 27 And see that all these things are done 
in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man 
should run faster than he has strength. And again, it is 
expedient that he should be diligent, that thereby he 
might win the prize; therefore, all things must be done 
in order.
Whatever else you may or may not be able to provide,
you can offer your prayers and you can give “love
unfeigned.” 8 
D. and C. 121:41 “Charity suffereth long, and is kind; 
… [it] beareth all things, … hopeth all things, endureth 
all things. Charity never faileth.” 9
9  1Corinthians 13:4 Charity suffereth long, and is 
kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, 
is not puffed up,
9 Moroni 7:45 And charity suffereth long, and is 
kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh 
not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, 
and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the 
truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth 
all things, endureth all things.
  46 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, if ye have not 
charity, ye are nothing, for charity never faileth. 
Wherefore, cleave unto charity, which is the greatest 
of all, for all things must fail—


Also let us remember that through any illness 
or difficult challenge, there is still much in life to 
be hopeful about and grateful for. We are infinitely 
more than our limitations or our afflictions! 

Stephanie Clark Nielson and her family have been 
our friends for more than 30 years. On August 16, 
2008, Stephanie and her husband, Christian, were 
in a plane crash and subsequent fire that scarred 
her so horrifically that only her painted toenails 
were recognizable when family members came to 
identify the victims. There was almost no chance 
Stephanie could live. After three months in a 
sleep-induced coma, she awoke to see herself. 
With that, the psyche-scarring and horrendous 
depression came. Having four children under 
the age of seven, Stephanie did not want them 
to see her ever again. She felt it would be better 
not to live. “I thought it would be easier,” 
Stephanie once told me in my office, “if they 
just forgot about me and I quietly slipped 
out of their life.”

But to her eternal credit, and with the prayers
of her husband, family, friends, four beautiful
children, and a fifth born to the Nielsons just
18 months ago, Stephanie fought her way back
from the abyss of self-destruction to be one
of the most popular “mommy bloggers” in
the nation, openly declaring to the four
million who follow her blog that her “divine
purpose” in life is to be a mom and to cherish
every day she has been given on this beautiful
earth.

Whatever your struggle, my brothers and
sisters—mental or emotional or physical
or otherwise—do not vote against the
preciousness of life by ending it! Trust in
God. Hold on in His love. Know that one
day the dawn will break brightly and all
shadows of mortality will flee. Though
we may feel we are “like a broken vessel,”
as the Psalmist says, 10 
10Psalm 31:12  I am forgotten as a dead man 
out of mind: I am like a broken vessel.
We must remember, that vessel is in the
hands of the divine potter. Broken minds
can be healed just the way broken bones
and broken hearts are healed. While God
is at work making those repairs, the rest
of us can help by being merciful,
nonjudgmental, and kind.
Behold My Hands and Feet














I testify of the holy Resurrection, that
unspeakable cornerstone gift in the
Atonement of the Lord Jesus Christ!
With the Apostle Paul, I testify that
that which was sown in corruption
will one day be raised in incorruption
and that which was sown in weakness
will ultimately be raised in power. 11 
11 1 Corinthians 15:42   So also is 
the resurrection of the dead. It is sown 
in corruption; it is raised in incorruption:
43 It is sown in dishonor; it is raised in 
glory: it is sown in weakness; it is raised 
in power:

I bear witness of that day when loved ones
whom we knew to have disabilities in
mortality will stand before us glorified
and grand, breathtakingly perfect in
body and mind. 
What a thrilling moment that will be!
I do not know whether we will be happier
for ourselves that we have witnessed such
a miracle or happier for them that they
are fully perfect and finally “free at last.” 




Free at last, free at last
I thank God I'm free at last
Free at last, free at last
I thank God I'm free at last
Way down yonder in the graveyard walk
I thank God I'm free at last
Me and my Jesus going to meet and talk
I thank God I'm free at last
On my knees when the light pass'd by
I thank God I'm free at last
Tho't my soul would rise and fly
I thank God I'm free at last
Some of these mornings, bright and fair
I thank God I'm free at last
Goin' meet King Jesus in the air

                                  I thank God I'm free at last!   

  1. “Free at Last,” in John W. Work, comp., American Negro 
  2. Songs: 230 Folk Songs and Spirituals, Religious and Secular 
  3. (1998), 197.
  4.  
  5. __________________________________________
  6. Elder Holland's Notes (Each note was incorporated by this 
  7. blogger into the his talk as it is given above (as much as seemed possible).

  8.  
    2. See Alma 26:27; see also Alma 56:16.
  9.  
    3. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 267.
  10.  
    4. Thomas S. Monson, “We Never Walk Alone,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 123, 124.
  11.  
    5. See Matthew 26:39.
  12.  
    6. See, for example, Psalm 4:4Doctrine and Covenants 101:16.
  13.  
    7. See Mosiah 4:27.
  14.  
  15.  
    9. 1 Corinthians 13:4, 7–8; emphasis added; see also Moroni 7:45–46.
  16.  
  17.  
  18.  
    12. “Free at Last,” in John W. Work, comp., American Negro 
  19. Songs: 230 Folk Songs and Spirituals, Religious and Secular 
  20. (1998), 197.





____________
DISCLAIMER This website is not owned by or affiliated with the Church 
Of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (sometimes called the Mormon or LDS 
Church). The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position 
of the Church.
____________

TO ACCESS NEIL BIRCH'S BLOG INDEX To Either Read the Full 
Index Item Which Refers To This Blog Post, (Or An Item Which Refers To Any Other 
Blog Post You May Desire To Access)After Reading All of This Paragraph Please 
Click on the Post Title Shown at the End of this following paragraph: 
When You See a Portrayal of  Our Savior Jesus Christ Sitting Next To 
Little Boy, Please, Scroll Down To our Target: Mental or Emotional 
Problems! If You or a Close Loved One are Afflicted with Such
How do You Best Respond? This Blog Post is Based on the October 2013 
General Conference Talk of Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of 
Twelve Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. 
-Post 47x
____________

"Four Books of Scripture Testify of Jesus Christ! Legal /Statement.
Thank you for visiting. The author retains intellectual property and 
creative licensing rights. Permission to use or reprint must be given 
in writing. © Est.2008 Neil Birch Legal /Statement.

____________

I deeply appreciate your readership and hope you found
very beneficial, that which was presented to you in this 
blog post.

If you have any questions about what you have read or 
viewed in this post or in any previous posts of mine, 
or if you even have a curiosity about the Church of Jesus 
Christ of Latter-day Saints, and or its teachings, please 
e-mail me. I'm Neil and my e-mail address is: 
jneilmelva@gmail.com. If you contact me I'll get back 
to you just as soon as possible.

Neil Birch

Friday, January 10, 2014

Post 47w: This Week it is My Great Pleasure and Opportunity of Sharing with Each of You Viewers of My Blog the Very Special and Very Inspired General Conference Talk Given by President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor in the First Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the October 2013 General Conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Which is Entitled: "To My Grandchildren!"

The Following Blog Description Explains Why My Blog is named: "Four Books of Scripture Testify of Jesus Christ!


Jesus the Christ -by Del Parson

WELCOME, NEW  AND REGULAR 
VIEWERS OF THIS BLOG: In this and 
in every additional post of this blog you will 
be led on a carefully and prayerfully planned 
exciting and inspiring journey as you prepare 
by means of a guided study of the four sacred 
books of scripture I am shown holding above; 
which will assist you in becoming more 
righteously happy now and more fully 
prepared for eventual After-Mortality Eternal 
Endeavors on your part, along with your loved 
ones and countless other mortals who are 
seeking to qualify as our Heavenly Father's 
worthy children. 

Those enabling Books of Scripture were 
brought about through the love of the 
Heavenly Father of our immortal spirits 
which now inhabit our mortal bodies; and 
were a key part of the Restoration of the 
Gospel, and of the establishment of The 
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day 
Saints, through the Prophet Joseph Smith 
early in the Nineteenth Century. 

Leading out in all of this, was of course, 
Our Heavenly Father's Only Begotten Son 
who is our Lord, Savior, and Redeemer, 
Jesus Christ (who initially was our eldest 
spirit brother and is the only one of us 
our Heavenly Father will have ever 
sired into mortality). 

Jesus accomplished His Infinite Atonement, 
the Ultimate Mortal Sacrifice, along with 
His infallibly witnessed Resurrection. He is 
our Redeemer and Savior who opened the 
way for each of us to learn with certainty 
through those four books of scripture, and 
through the inspired teachings of His 
prophets, seers and revelators of our day 
and those authorized by them; that some 
time after our mortal deaths, because of 
His atonement and resurrection, and 
depending on the level of individual 
righteousness we each attain to, 
through His grace, we can eventually 
experience Eternal Life in our own 
resurrected bodies, which in the case 
of those who fully heeded all of His 
scriptural guidance and the guidance 
of His authorized living servants, 
there will be full possession of 
Godly capabilities! 

J. Neil Birch

To Access This Blog's Index, Please Scroll Down To the Fifth 
Paragraph From the End of This Post! For Those of You Who May 
Be In a Hurry to Access it, Here it is now: Neil Birch's Blog Index.

****

TODAY'S THEME:

I, J. Neil Birch, Author of this Blog Post as you have
been informed in my Introduction, have chosen this 
week to feature an October 2013 General Conference 
talk given by President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor 
in the First Presidency of the Church mentioned above. 
First, I desire that you each learn about his background 
before he was called to his position as a Councilor to the 
President of the Church.  You will also be informed about 
his family.
http://www.lds.org/church/leader/henry-b-eyring


Now I invite each of you to listen to President Eyring's 
talk given at the October 2013 General Conference of 
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, entitled:
TO MY GRANDCHILDREN!

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/
10/to-my-grandchildren?lang=eng&query
=to+my+grandchildren

You are next invited to thoughtfully and prayerfully
read through the printed version of President Eyring's 
talk in which you will come across,  each of  the three 
reference notes he has inserted through which he,  
with some assistance from me gives you further guidance:

To My Grandchildren

Henry B. Eyring
There is one overarching 
commandment that will 
help us to meet the 
challenges and lead to 
the heart of a happy 
family life.

This year our first two grandchildren will be married.
Within a few years as many as 10 of their cousins are
likely to reach a point in their lives where they will
follow into the wonderful world of family creation.
That happy prospect has caused me deep
contemplation as they have asked me for advice.
Essentially they have asked, “What choices could
I make that will lead me to happiness?” And on the
other hand, “What choices are likely to lead me
to unhappiness?”
Heavenly Father has made each of us unique. No
two of us have exactly the same experiences.
No two families are alike. So it is not surprising
that advice about how to choose happiness in
family life is hard to give. 
Yet a loving Heavenly Father has set the same
path to happiness  for all of His children. 
Whatever our personal characteristics or whatever
will be our experiences, there is but one plan of
happiness. That plan is to follow all the
commandments of God.
For all of us, including my grandchildren
contemplating marriage, there is one overarching
commandment that will help us to meet the
challenges and lead to the heart of a happy
familylife. It applies to all relationships
regardless of circumstances. It is repeated
throughout the scriptures and in the teachings
of the prophets in our day. Here is the Bible
wording of the Lord’s advice to all who want to
live together forever in loving happiness:
“Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a
question, tempting him, and saying, “Master, which is
the great commandment in the law? 
“Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God
with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy
mind. “This is the first and great commandment. “And
the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor
as thyself.
“On these two commandments hang all the law and
the prophets.1
Matthew 22:35-40 
From that simple statement it is not hard to summarize
all I have learned about what choices lead to happiness in
families. I start with the question, “What choices have led
me toward loving the Lord with all my heart and soul and
with all my mind?”

For me it has been to choose to put myself where I felt
the joy of forgiveness through the Lord’s Atonement.
Years ago I baptized a young man in Albuquerque,
New Mexico, whom my missionary companion and
I had taught. I put the young man down into the water
and brought him up. He must have been nearly as tall
as me because he spoke directly into my ear. With
water from the font and tears running down his face
and with joy in his voice, he said, “I’m clean,
I’m clean.”
I have seen those same tears of happiness in the eyes of
someone who recounted the words of an Apostle of God.
He had said to her, after a searching and tender
interview, “I forgive you in the name of the Lord. He will
give you the assurance of His forgiveness in His own time
and in His own way.” And He did. I have seen why the
Lord can say that when sins are forgiven, He can
remember them no more. By the power of the
Atonement, people I know well and love became new,
and the effects of sin were wiped away.

My heart has been filled with love for the Savior and the
loving Father who sent Him.
That great blessing has come by encouraging people I
care for to go to the Savior for relief from pain, a relief
only He can give. That is why I urge those I love to
accept and to magnify every calling offered them in
the Church. 
That choice is one of the great keys to family
happiness.
The pressures at every stage of life can tempt us to reject
or neglect calls to serve the Savior. That can put us in
spiritual peril for ourselves, our spouse, and our families.
Some of those calls may seem unimportant, but my life,
and my family, was changed for the better by my
accepting a call to teach a deacons quorum. I felt the
love of those deacons for the Savior and His love for
them.
 I have seen that happen in the life of a former stake
and mission president in his call to him to advise a
teachers quorum. I know of another who has been a
bishop and then an Area Seventy who was used by
the Lord to succor a boy in a teachers quorum who
was hurt in an accident. The miracles from that
service  touched many lives, including mine, and increased
heir love for the Savior.
 While serving others, we are most likely to plead
for the companionship of the Holy Ghost. Success in
the Lord’s service always produces miracles beyond
our own powers. The parent facing a child in serious
rebellion knows that is true, as does the visiting
teacher approached by a woman seeking comfort
when her husband told her he was leaving her.
Both servants are grateful they prayed that morning
for the Lord to send the Holy Ghost as a companion.
It is only with the companionship of the Holy Ghost
that we can hope to be equally yoked in a marriage
free from discord. I have seen how that companionship
is crucial for felicity in a marriage. The miracle of
becoming one requires the help of heaven, and it takes
time. Our goal is to live together forever in the presence
of Heavenly Father and our Savior.
 My father and my mother were very different from 
each other. My mother was a singer and an artist. 
My father loved chemistry. Once at a symphony 
concert, my mother was surprised when my father 
stood up and began to leave before the applause 
began.  My mother asked him where he was going. 
His response was, in all innocence: “Well, it’s over, 
is'n't it?” Only the gentle influence of the Holy 
Ghost got him there with her in the first place 
and brought him back to concerts time and 
time again.

 My mother lived in New Jersey for 16 years so that
my father could support the family by doing research
and teaching chemistry. To her it was a sacrifice being
separated from her widowed mother and her unmarried
sister, who had cared for her in the old family 
farmhouse. They both died while Mother was far away 
in New Jersey.Those were the only times I ever saw 
my mother cry.

Years later my father was offered a job in Utah.
He asked my mother, again in all innocence, 
“Mildred, what do you think I should do?”

 She said, “Henry, do whatever you think is best.”

He turned down the offer. The next morning she wrote
him a letter that I wish I still had. I remember that she
told him, “Don’t open it here. Go to the office and open
it there.” It began with a rebuke. He had promised her
years before that if he ever could, he would take her to
be near her family. He was surprised by her
expression of irritation. He had not remembered the
desire of her heart. He immediately sent a message
accepting the job offer.

 He said, “Mildred, why didn’t you tell me?” She said,
“You were supposed to remember.”

 He always spoke of that choice to move to Utah as his
own, never as a sacrifice of his professional career.
They had received the miracle of becoming one. It
would have been better if Dad had been reminded
by the Holy Ghost of the promise he had made years
earlier. But he did allow the Holy Ghost to soften
his heart so that her choice became his.

 Heavenly Father has perfect foresight, knows each of
us, and knows our future. He knows what difficulties we
will pass through. He sent His Son to suffer so that He
would know how to succor us in all our trials.
 We know that Heavenly Father has spirit children in
this world who sometimes choose sin  and great
unhappiness. That is why He sent His Firstborn to be our
Redeemer, the greatest act of love in all creation.
That is why we must expect that it will take the help of
God and time to polish us for eternal life, to live with
our Father.
Life in families will test us. That is one of God’s
purposes in giving us the gift of mortality—to strengthen
us by passing through tests. That will be especially true in
family life, where we will find great joy and great sorrow
and challenges which may at times seem beyond our
power to endure them.
President George Q. Cannon said this about how God
has prepared you and me and our children for the tests
we will face: “There is not one of us but what God’s love
has been expended upon. There is not one of us that
He has not cared for and caressed. There is not one of us
that He has not desired to save, and that He has not
devised means to save. 
 There is not one of us that He has not given His angels
charge concerning. We may be insignificant and
contemptible in our own eyes, and in the eyes of others,
but the truth remains that we are the children of God,
and that He has actually given His angels —invisible
beings of power and might—charge concerning us, and
 they watch over us and have us in their keeping.”2
 What President Cannon taught is true. You will need that
assurance, as I have needed it and depended on it. I have
prayed with faith that someone I loved would seek and feel
the power of the Atonement. I have prayed with faith that
human angels would come to their aid, and  they came.
 God has devised means to save each of His children.
For many, that involves being placed with a brother or
a sister or a grandparent who loves them no matter what
they do.
Years ago a friend of mine spoke of his grandmother. 
She had lived a full life, always faithful to the Lord and to 
His Church. Yet one of her grandsons chose a life of crime. 
He was finally sentenced to prison. My friend recalled that
 his grandmother, as she drove along a highway to visit 
her grandson in prison, had tears in her eyes as she prayed 
with anguish, “I’ve tried to live a good life. Why, why do I 
have this tragedy of a grandson who seems to have destroyed 
his life?”

The answer came to her mind in these words: “I gave him
to you because I knew you could and would love him no 
matter what he did.”

There is a wonderful lesson for us all. The way for loving
parents and grandparents and all of God’s servants will not
be easy in a decaying world. We cannot force God’s children
to choose the way to happiness. God cannot do that because
of the agency He has given us.
 Heavenly Father and His Beloved Son love all of God’s
children no matter what they choose to do or what they
become. The Savior paid the price of all sins, no matter how
heinous. Even though there must be justice, the opportunity
for mercy is extended which will not rob justice.
 Alma expressed that hope to his son Corianton in these
words: 
Jesus the Christ by: -Heinrich Hofmann













Alma 42:13 
“Therefore, according to justice, the plan
of redemption could not be brought about, 
only on conditions of repentance of men
in this probationary state, yea, this 
preparatory state; for except it were for
these conditions, mercy could not take
effect except it should destroy the work 
of justice. Now the work of justice could
not be destroyed; if so, God would cease
to be God.3
My message then to my grandchildren, and to all of us trying
to forge eternal families, is that there is joy guaranteed for the
faithful. From before the world was, a loving Father in Heaven
and His Beloved Son loved and worked with those who They
knew would wander. 
God will love them forever.
 You have the advantage of knowing that they learned the plan
of salvation from the teachings they received in the spirit world.
They and you were faithful enough to be allowed to come into
the world when many others were not.
 With the help of the Holy Ghost, all truths will be brought to
our remembrance. We cannot force that on others, but we can
let them see it in our lives. We can always take courage from
the assurance that we all once felt the joy of being together as a
member of the beloved family of our Heavenly Father. With
God’s help we can all feel that hope and that joy again.

I pray that may be so for all of us in the name of the Lord
Jesus Christ, amen.

     Notes  1. Matthew 22:35–40

                  2. George Q. Cannon, “Our Pre-existence and Present Probation,” Contributor, 

   Oct. 1890, 476.  3. Alma 42:13.








____________
DISCLAIMER This website is not owned by or affiliated with the Church 
Of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (sometimes called the Mormon or LDS 
Church). The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position 
of the Church.
____________

TO ACCESS NEIL BIRCH'S BLOG INDEX To Either Read the Full 
Index Item Which Refers To This Blog Post, (Or An Item Which Refers To Any Other 
Blog Post You May Desire To Access)After Reading All of This Paragraph Please 
Click on the Post Title Shown at the End of this following paragraph: 
When You See a Portrayal of  Our Savior Jesus Christ Sitting Next To 
Little Boy, Please, Scroll Down To our Target: Teaching Our Children! 
This Blog Post is Based on the October 2013 General Conference Talk 
of President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor in the First 
Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. -Post 47w
____________

"Four Books of Scripture Testify of Jesus Christ! Legal /Statement.
Thank you for visiting. The author retains intellectual property and 
creative licensing rights. Permission to use or reprint must be given 
in writing. © Est.2008 Neil Birch Legal /Statement.

____________

I deeply appreciate your readership and hope you found
very beneficial, that which was presented to you in this 
blog post.

If you have any questions about what you have read or 
viewed in this post or in any previous posts of mine, 
or if you even have a curiosity about the Church of Jesus 
Christ of Latter-day Saints, and or its teachings, please 
e-mail me. I'm Neil and my e-mail address is: 
jneilmelva@gmail.com. If you contact me I'll get back 
to you just as soon as possible.

Neil Birch